The list, and which one he picked out
He gave all four before naming the one.
تُنْكَحُ الْمَرْأَةُ لأَرْبَعٍ لِمَالِهَا وَلِحَسَبِهَا وَجَمَالِهَا وَلِدِينِهَا، فَاظْفَرْ بِذَاتِ الدِّينِ
Tunkaḥu-l-marʾatu li-arbaʿ: li-mālihā wa li-ḥasabihā wa jamālihā wa li-dīnihā. Fa-ẓfar bi-dhāti-d-dīn
A woman is married for four things: her wealth, her family standing, her beauty, and her religion. So win the one with religion.
Where this comes from
He does not deny the other three are reasons people marry. He lists them first, accurately, and then says which one to choose on.
The full narration
Narrated Abu Huraira:The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "A woman is married for four things, i.e., her wealth, her family status, her beauty and her religion. So you should marry the religious woman (otherwise) you will be a losers
Source
Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī · 5090
Ṣaḥīḥ
- Agreed upon as authentic (al-Bukhārī / Muslim)